BAHAGIA atau BERDAMAILAH….

Walaupun saya peguam yang dapat rezeki bila orang lain bermasalah, tapi saya juga seorang isteri dan ibu yang terkesan bila lihat orang lain bermasalah.

Once while travelling together in a car, a client overheard my phone conversation with my husband and she commented “i envy you, boleh cakap manja dgn husband. My husband never told me he loves me. Not even once”. It hit me hard hearing that, it hit me home. 😢

Rasa sedih sebab some wives or husbands do not feel BAHAGIA in the marriage. When marriage is supposed to be about being happy.

Allah tak suruh kita sengsara atas dunia, in fact Allah ajar kita doa dikurniakan bahagia di DUNIA dan AKHIRAT. Rabbana aatina fiddunya HASANAH wa filakhirati HASANAH.

If u choose to stay together, u should stay happily together.

Happy does not mean pasangan tak boleh ada weaknesses langsung, mana ada manusia perfect.

Instead, Happy is about ACCEPTING each other’s weaknesses and learning to improve or live through it with CINTA.

Cinta pada orang yang baik itu mudah. CINTA SEBENAR adalah pada orang yang kita jadi baik bila bersamanya, walaupun dia tidak baik.

Even if u have no other way but to pisah, pisahlah dengan DAMAI.

“Damai” does not mean you have to stay together. Even if u are not together, you berdamai for the sake of the good memories u once shared, and more importantly if u have kids together (provided the ex tidak zalim pada the kids).

Berdamai for the sake of the kids, even if u cannot do it for yourself.

And more importantly, BERDAMAI to give yourself peace and back to being BAHAGIA.

Ashikin Rahim
19-2-2021

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